written by Kirk Moore – a repost from an entry a couple of years ago.
“Why aren’t you smiling? It’s (insert holiday here) and we’re supposed to be joyful!” Said to countless people by countless people at family gatherings, parties, or church services relating to holidays.
It’s OK to feel great around the holidays. It’s OK to celebrate. It’s OK to laugh, dance, and sing for joy.
It’s not just OK — it’s wonderful. Celebrating is wonderful.
But telling folks who aren’t feeling the celebration that they should get with the program isn’t.
Around the holidays, many people feel intensified grief or re-experience trauma. They don’t want to celebrate in the midst of it.
Please be aware of the range of experience folks have with holidays. You don’t have to try to “fix” anything. Give space, presence, and peace to all.
Here are a few helpful resources:
- Recognizing Holiday Triggers of Trauma from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration
- We’ve been posting a series of items about maintaining good health during the holidays on our facebook page.
- Holiday Self Care from the Interfaith Network on Mental Illness
Blessings and peace to you.
Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. Hebrews 10:24
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